THE #1 WORKSHOP FOR MEN READY TO HEAL
BREAK FREE FROM SHAME. REBUILD TRUST. RECLAIM YOUR INTEGRITY.
BREAK FREE FROM SHAME.
REBUILD TRUST.
RECLAIM YOUR INTEGRITY.
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You betrayed her trust.
You’re carrying guilt, confusion — and you’re not sure how to fix it.
This 10-week workshop gives you the tools to take responsibility, rebuild integrity, and reconnect from a place of truth.
Break the cycle of shame, secrecy, and self-sabotage
Understand how betrayal impacts your partner's trauma
Learn how to rebuild trust - and repair what matters most.
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"This changed everything for me"
"It was the first time I really understood that I wasn’t broken — I just needed a better way to deal with shame." - J.A.
WHY YOU'RE STUCK IN SHAME
REBUILDING TRUST AFTER BETRAYAL FEELS IMPOSSIBLE - UNLESS YOU FACE THIS HEAD ON...
You’ve apologized. You’ve tried to move forward.
But the relationship still isn’t healing — and deep down, you know something’s missing.
You shut down or withdraw when your partner gets triggered — because you’re afraid of doing more damage.
You want to be present, but shame takes over and you either freeze… or lash out.
You’ve heard things like “You don’t get it” or “You don’t care” — and you don’t know how to respond anymore.
The Truth: You can’t rebuild trust without learning how to face shame head-on — and lead with empathy, not defense.
YOU JUST NEED A FRAMEWORK FOR HEALING THAT ACTUALLY WORKS.
Most men try to fix things with quick apologies or surface-level solutions — but that’s not what creates real trust.
The Shame to Resilience workshop gives you a proven step-by-step process to:
Understand the impact of your actions — without getting stuck in shame
Learn what your partner actually needs from you right now
Rebuild trust by showing up consistently with clarity, honesty, and integrity
WHY HEALING SHAME IS THE MISSING LINK...
Most men in this workshop have already tried to fix things.
They’ve read the books. They’ve made the apologies.
But nothing really changes — because they’re still carrying shame.
And shame shuts down empathy.
If you can’t stay present when your partner is triggered…
If you beat yourself up or shut down instead of engaging...
It’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because you haven’t been taught how to sit with shame and lead with empathy.
WHAT YOU GET INSIDE THE SHAME TO RESILIENCE PROGRAM...
Everything You Need...
LIVE GROUP SESSIONS
Join a weekly call led by an expert therapist who guides men through shame, betrayal, and the path to repair — no fluff, no judgment.
PRIVATE CURRICULUM
Access exclusive content designed specifically for men who’ve broken trust and want to rebuild it with honesty, clarity, and emotional maturity.
STEP-BY-STEP REPAIR PLAN
Follow a proven roadmap to rebuild trust, take full responsibility, and start showing up as the man your partner (and you) can be proud of.
LIVE GROUP SESSIONS
Join a weekly call led by an expert therapist who guides men through shame, betrayal, and the path to repair — no fluff, no judgment.
PRIVATE CURRICULUM
Access exclusive content designed specifically for men who’ve broken trust and want to rebuild it with honesty, clarity, and emotional maturity.
STEP-BY-STEP REPAIR PLAN
Follow a proven roadmap to rebuild trust, take full responsibility, and start showing up as the man your partner (and you) can be proud of.
MEET YOUR MENTOR
DUANE OSTERLIND
Duane is a licensed therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist who’s spent the last 15+ years helping men face the wreckage of betrayal — and actually do something about it.
This isn’t just about guilt.
It’s about ownership.
It’s about learning how to lead with integrity, rebuild trust, and stop hiding behind shame.
Specializes in helping men repair after infidelity or betrayal
Host of the Addicted Mind podcast, with over a million downloads
Known for calling men into truth — not out of punishment, but purpose
If you’re ready to stop apologizing and start repairing — this is the guide you want.
MEET YOUR CO-HOST
ERIC OSTERLIND
Eric is a Board-Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner who brings deep compassion, grounded clinical insight, and lived experience into the healing journey.
His work focuses on helping men face anxiety, depression, and emotional avoidance with clarity and courage... especially in the wake of betrayal.
This isn’t just about managing symptoms.
It’s about learning how to stay present, emotionally engaged, and grounded in truth... even in the hardest conversations.
Specializes in helping men move from emotional shutdown to relational presence
Known for his deeply personalized, empathetic approach to mental wellness
Passionate about giving men the tools to show up with integrity and emotional resilience
If you’ve struggled to sit in the discomfort, or felt stuck in your own head — Eric brings the steady presence and strategic support needed to help you stay in the work.
TESTIMONIALS
WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING
Real Men. Real Results.
"Empathy can’t live if shame is present. Shame is only thinking of how I feel — not how my partner feels. Those two sentences really changed the way I show up."
- J.A.
"Being able to see my wife’s perspective — even while I still had recovery work to do — was eye-opening. It changed how we talk to each other.”
- B.C.
"I was drowning in an ocean of shame after betraying my partner. This workshop helped me shift from shame to ownership, and start doing the real work."
- M.B.
"This course helped me understand how shame spirals affect my body and my reactions. I can finally sit in hard conversations without shutting down.”
- P.R.
"Now I have the tools to move forward and leave behind the shame I’ve felt for 40+ years. I still have work to do, but I’m not stuck anymore.”
- J.L.
"Over the course of this workshop, I’ve learned to move out of shame and into healthy response. The group has helped me stay grounded and not give up.”
- D.U.
READY TO DO THE WORK?
NEXT COHORT STARTS JULY 16th AT 5:00 PM PST!
YOU'RE ONE STEP AWAY FROM EARNING BACK REAL TRUST.
You're here because you know surface-level fixes won’t cut it anymore.
This is your chance to step into real accountability — and finally learn how to rebuild what matters most.
10-week guided workshop led by a licensed betrayal recovery expert
Tools to help you move beyond shame and lead with integrity
A clear, proven path to start earning trust back the right way
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