The 10-Week Workshop for Men
Break free from shame. Rebuild trust. Reclaim your integrity.
You betrayed her trust. You're carrying guilt, confusion — and you're not sure how to fix it. This workshop gives you the tools to take responsibility, rebuild integrity, and reconnect from a place of truth.
- 10-week guided workshop led by a licensed betrayal recovery expert
- Tools to help you move beyond shame and lead with integrity
- A clear, proven path to start earning trust back the right way
10 live group sessions + 10 course videos & worksheets — $895
"It was the first time I really understood that I wasn't broken — I just needed a better way to deal with shame."
— J.A.Enroll Now
Ready to do the work? Claim your spot before this cohort fills.
Fill out the form to secure your seat in the next 10-week cohort. Spots are limited to keep the group intimate and the accountability real.
- 10 live weekly group coaching sessions with Duane & Eric
- 10 online course videos and practical worksheets
- A clear, proven path to rebuild trust and lead with integrity
If you're reading this, some part of you already knows something has to change.
You've apologized. Maybe more than once. You've tried to explain, to fix it, to make it right — and some days it feels like it's working, and other days it feels like nothing you do is enough.
Here's what I want you to hear: you are not broken, and you're not too far gone to become the man this relationship needs.
What you're missing isn't willpower. It's a way to work with the shame that keeps pulling you into shutdown, defensiveness, or silence right when your partner needs you most.
That's what this workshop is built to do — not to shame you further, you've carried enough of that already, but to hand you an actual path forward, alongside other men doing the same work.
Duane Osterlind
LMFT, CSAT · Host, The Addicted Mind Podcast
Next Cohort: September 23rd, 4-5 PM PST
Enroll in the Workshop
- 10 live weekly group coaching sessions
- 10 online course videos & practical worksheets
- Led by Duane & Eric Osterlind
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Why You're Stuck
Rebuilding trust after betrayal feels impossible — unless you face this head on
The Framework
You just need a framework for healing that actually works
Most men try to fix things with quick apologies or surface-level solutions — but that's not what creates real trust. Shame to Resilience gives you a proven, step-by-step process to:
The Missing Link
Why healing shame is the missing link
Most men in this workshop have already tried to fix things. They've read the books. They've made the apologies. But nothing really changes — because they're still carrying shame. And shame shuts down empathy.
If you can't stay present when your partner is triggered… if you beat yourself up or shut down instead of engaging... it's not because you're broken.
It's because you haven't been taught how to sit with shame and lead with empathy.
What's Included
Everything you need to do the work
Live Group Sessions
Join a weekly call led by an expert therapist who guides men through shame, betrayal, and the path to repair — no fluff, no judgment.
Private Curriculum
Access exclusive content designed specifically for men who've broken trust and want to rebuild it with honesty, clarity, and emotional maturity.
Step-by-Step Repair Plan
Follow a proven roadmap to rebuild trust, take full responsibility, and start showing up as the man your partner — and you — can be proud of.
Meet Your Guides
Led by people who've done this work for 15+ years
Mentor
Duane Osterlind
A licensed therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist who's spent the last 15+ years helping men face the wreckage of betrayal — and actually do something about it. This isn't just about guilt. It's about ownership, integrity, and rebuilding trust instead of hiding behind shame.
- Specializes in helping men repair after infidelity or betrayal
- Host of the Addicted Mind podcast, with over a million downloads
- Known for calling men into truth — not out of punishment, but purpose
Co-Host
Eric Osterlind
A Board-Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner who brings deep compassion, grounded clinical insight, and lived experience into the healing journey — helping men move from emotional shutdown to relational presence, especially in the wake of betrayal.
- Specializes in helping men move from emotional shutdown to relational presence
- Known for a deeply personalized, empathetic approach to mental wellness
- Passionate about giving men the tools to show up with integrity and resilience
Testimonials
What others are saying
Real men. Real results.
"Empathy can't live if shame is present. Shame is only thinking of how I feel — not how my partner feels. Those two sentences really changed the way I show up."
J.A."Being able to see my wife's perspective — even while I still had recovery work to do — was eye-opening. It changed how we talk to each other."
B.C."I was drowning in an ocean of shame after betraying my partner. This workshop helped me shift from shame to ownership, and start doing the real work."
M.B."This course helped me understand how shame spirals affect my body and my reactions. I can finally sit in hard conversations without shutting down."
P.R."Now I have the tools to move forward and leave behind the shame I've felt for 40+ years. I still have work to do, but I'm not stuck anymore."
J.L."Over the course of this workshop, I've learned to move out of shame and into healthy response. The group has helped me stay grounded and not give up."
D.U.Next Cohort: Wednesday, August 19th, 10 AM PST
Ready to do the work?
10 live group coaching sessions, 10 online course videos, and practical worksheets — everything you need to break free from shame and start rebuilding trust.